Why do womxn have to wear bras on an almost regular basis? Is it scientifically proven to be good for you (science says no), like brushing your teeth? Or is it, as we approach a feminist era, a gender conforming activity pushed regularly onto us by a heteronormative matriarchy that has co-opted patriarchy into its everyday existence?
As soon as we hit puberty, girls are bought training bras which actually prevent breasts from achieving their natural lift. As soon as we hit adulthood, the R300 plus price tag on a basic bra has us thinking we wonâ€™t have food by the end of the month. So why bother wearing those restrictive elastic wire pads in the firsts place?
The â€œbackless brassiereâ€ was designed in 1914 by 19 year-old Mary Phelps Jacobs who was tired of wearing the even more restrictive whalebone corset.
The bra was also used as a political symbol back in the 1968 Miss America pageant. Snopes uncovered there was no bra-burning though.
Weâ€™ve now moved into an age where the even freer boob jail has got to go. But obviously the mindset will take much longer to remove than the bra itself when you get home. Luckily there are ways to go braless on days you donâ€™t feel like slinging one on.
Sew bra-cups into your tops and/or dresses
Firstly, if youâ€™ve got the time, skill, and energy to do this, sewing bra-cups into your tops is something you can do. While technically itâ€™s not going bra-less, this will help if you donâ€™t have the confidence to do full titty swing.
Go for dark colours
Darker colours hide things well so a dark t-shirt is less likely to reveal (god forbid) that you arenâ€™t wearing a bra.
Hereâ€™s one reason to look forward to winter coming – layers and sweaters. A tight thermal vest, sweater, and a coat – this oneâ€™s pretty self explanatory. But before we get into the period of extreme layering, a cardigan, sweater, or jacket do good job of keeping your confidence up when your breasts are down (I couldnâ€™t help myself).
Wear dresses or tops with structure and/or detail on top
Doing this will disguise the fact that you arenâ€™t strapped in. Look for details like ruffles, lace, and seams below the bust.
Wear detailed camisoles
The strappy tops, which are perfect underneath a cardigan, jacket, or just by themselves, are a good type of top to wear if you want to go braless. If you have a smaller bust, you can get away with camisoles in light fabrics. For those with bigger busts, go for more structured solid material. Most times youâ€™ll find tank tops that come with inner support already. But those tend to look basic if youâ€™re more fashion-forward.
Wear cotton t-shirts
Go for it. The silhouette may lookÂ moreÂ different Â to what you and the rest of societyÂ are used to but do it. Thicker cotton fabrics not only do a better job of disguising the nipples (still donâ€™t get why they are such a problem). They also let your skin breathe.
Wear a fitted strapless tops
Going braless with a tight strapless top is amazing because you donâ€™t have to worry about restless strapless bra syndrome. Slide one on with high-waisted wide-leg pants or flared skirt, and youâ€™re good to go.
Use nipple adhesive for smaller busts and silicone nipple covers for larger busts
The advantage of having small breasts is that they tend to be perkier and therefore donâ€™t require much support. The nipple adhesives come in different sizes and stick onto your breasts like plasters. The silicone covers – or pasties – are there for you when you feel you canâ€™t go full commando. They come in two varieties: adhesive and non-adhesive. These not only provide a bit of support but lift as well.
Use double-sided body tape
This tape is used to keep clothes on your body in place. So if youâ€™re going braless and are worried the deep-cut camisole wonâ€™t behave, along with providing some added lift if place strategically, this is the heroine youâ€™ll need.