Books and intellectual conversations all day long, right? Wrong. Writers are like you and me. They are very human who donâ€
The humidity might have left my hair standing on end but the company was anything but scruffy. Indeed, it was a real privilege to find myself in the company of a mixed bunch of writers and storytellers during the Time of the Writer festival in the salty, and sultry, city of Debben.
We spent a week together, travelling from the hotel to the various venues around the city. KwaMashu, Cato Manor, Umlazi, Inanda, Kwadakuza. On most days I sat in silence (because, introvert) and listened in on the wicked and whacked conversations around me.
One conversation that struck a chord with me occurred when a tour guide introduced us to the school hall where Nelson Mandela cast his first vote in 1994. Immediately bewitched but immediately drawn into that complex place in which South Africa finds itself today: acknowledging struggle heroes and questioning historical decisions all at the same time. In a moment, the conversation changes, and the troops talk old adverts (particularly the Joshua Doore and Cremora adverts) before shifting to Yizo Yizo, Backstage and kwaito music.
Travelling in a minibus with the writers was a lot like high school – the cool and popular sitting at the back, the “awkward and weird” in isolation and the I-know-my-shit-but-calm circle and the like mingling with each other. Of course, some found that they clicked better with a certain circle so it was almost always grouped that way; much like high school – find your niche and stick to it.
Thando Mgqolozana, dubbed commander-in-chief of decolonising the book had a great responsibility on his shoulders. All eyes were on him as heâ€
Mgqolozana, concerned by my silence, frequently asked if Iâ€
We had a whole conversation about grappling with the challenge. On the last day of the festival TourÃ© told me: â€œI was wrong. I wonder though, maybe I was being sensitive. Iâ€
Christa Biyela and Mandla Ndlovu were the old-school-cool who reminded me so much of my maternal family. I connected with Christa on a mom-to-daughter level, maybe because her son is the same age as I am. She also resembles the strength of my late mother. I then learn that home is wherever you find comfort, even if itâ€
uBab’ Mandla (as I referred to him over the week because you canâ€
As expected, writing often came up in conversations with writers. Like uBab’ Mandla, uBab’ Nakanjani Sibiya is humorous and often asked me when Iâ€
Anthropologist-in-training Mishka Hoosen and I chuckled at Sibiyaâ€
We agreed about the state of our shitty media.
We posited that some writers and journalists are being hired because of their presence on social media, and their crappy works are liked because of the presumed personality behind it and not because of the content. Amen!
Another writer whose personality intrigued no end, had to be 40-year-old Nikhil Singh who looks no older than 25. I stayed close to him because I wanted to know the secret of not aging. I learnt that he was vegan and hardly touches dairy products. He also taught me a thing or two about life and society. Singh dropped out of high school and refused to go to university.
If I had some misunderstandings about diversity, #TOW2016 completely fixed that.
And, oh, If youâ€