Editorial: Misogyny, we are coming for you

We’ve been seeing people rant and moan all over the internet about what a terrible year 2016 was.

And it’s not hard to see why. The few remaining rock stars died, the US decided to elect the most inconsiderate, reckless, and selfish human on the planet as its next president, and the people of Britain decided that they wanted to go it alone (never mind they still have their fingers all over the globe). Not to forget that goddamn gorilla.

For many, it was seen as the year from hell.

And although someone changed the Hollywood sign to read “Hollyweed” on New Year’s day, this hardly means that 2017 is about to be any better.

Sorry to burst your bubble.

The New Year was ushered in by a large number of men in India using the revelry as an opportunity to molest and make lewd remarks to women passing by. No, this is not because the women involved were dressed to entice, or that the men involved were “just giving them compliments”.

It’s because the patriarchy is real, and we constantly defend misogyny by saying that boys will be boys. To top it off, authorities in India are denying it was a mass molestation because there was “no evidence”. Just read Meena Kandasamy’s incredible piece about the affair.

And this is will not be the first or last example of sexism we are likely to see this year.

When that orange-faced pussy-grabber Donald Trump is inaugurated as president next week, we will have a misogynist pig for leader of the “free world”.

So we are in great shape.

The patriarchy is all around us. And with social media norms permitting other dogmatists to spew out hateful rhetoric without being held to account (they are allowed to spill hate under the guise of “opinion”, while those who call them out are often banned for 24 hours at a time. Yes Facebook, I am looking at you), it is clear we have quite a battle on our hands.

It’s not about taking to the streets and picketing for equal pay. It’s not about burning our bras and refusing to marry. It’s about changing the mindset from the word “go”. No amount of ranting will change people’s entrenched oppression that lies within them.

But calling people out at every opportunity might. Make it uncomfortable. Make them squirm when they catcall a woman in the street. Make them apologise for that unsolicited dick pic. Root the misogyny out piece by piece.

Let this year be the one where we, as a people, said no to meninism and letting people – both men and women – get away with gender-based oppression. After the embarrassing state in which we left the world in 2016, let’s start to fix it. Because we can’t just blame it on the year. A year is just a number. But boys cannot be left to be just boys.

Featured image by Yeshiel Panchia

You might also like More from author

2 Comments

  1. Gwendoline Christie says

    Instead of simply man-bashing, how about next time you write a piece on men who do value women as their social, economic and political equals? I assure you, there are far more out there than your bias presumes.

  2. Amanda says

    Gwendoline Christie: How does this qualify as “man-bashing”? The writer has taken a opinion based stance in terms of the editorial because that is what is required from an editorial (it is an opinion). The man that the writer has chosen to speak about is the classic fit of “let boys be boys”, unless you agree that Donald Trump can be excused for his behaviour? As a woman do you feel all men you encounter treat you as an equal?

Leave A Reply

Your email address will not be published.