The Women Of Waqf Are Claiming Their Right To Pray In The Mosque

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What began as a means for women to form a spiritual community and pray their salaah in congregation during the holy month of Ramadan has exposed a deeply rooted patriarchy and toxic masculinity in the Johannesburg Muslim community.

A group of local women were, on Friday and again on Monday, rebuked for praying at Masjid Siratul-Jannah also known as the Gold Mosque in Ormonde, Johannesburg.

Many Johannesburg mosques don’t have provision for women at all while others have small allocated areas that are often locked.

On Monday, a video showing a man trying to stop women from getting close to listening to the Quran being recited at the Gold Mosque went viral.

Women were barred from praying in a section of the mosque that evening. A woman in the congregation, Sumaya Hendricks, posted a video of the incident on Facebook, which was recorded by Tazkiyyah Amra. Hendricks said a group of praying women were insulted and called ‘morons’. In the video, a man is heard saying that women cannot be in view of men during prayers.

This was not the first time the women had been barred from prayer at the mosque.

The women claiming the space to pray have become known as the Women of Waqf (WOW). Shameelah Khan and her friend Noorjaan Allie decided at the beginning of Ramadan to pray at different Johannesburg mosques. “My friend and I decided we wanted to spend one night, every night, at a different mosque so we could get to know the different mosques in Johannesburg,” Khan said in an interview with The Daily Vox. Both had previously lived in Cape Town and frequented the mosque regularly with friends. She speaks of the sense of community she felt there where the congregation would pray for those who were ill or writing exams.

The first mosque they attended was the Gold Mosque because they were aware that it had women’s facilities. Khan, who grew up in the mosque where she attended Madressah (Islamic school) as a child, had never prayed there as an adult.

When they arrived at the mosque, they saw an older woman leaving frustrated because the women’s facilities did not have a speaker for her to follow the taraweeh prayer in congregation. In the women’s facility there was a sign saying that women are not allowed to use the speaker unless it is to hear adhan (call to prayer) because women need to pray alone.

Khan and Allie struggled to get a speaker that night but eventually managed to attain a small radio speaker to follow the taraweeh prayer. They prayed there for a week and a half and a few other women started joining them as well. The speaker had altered the dynamic and allowed women to pray taraweeh instead just wait for hours for their husbands.

The two decided to host a small iftaar on Friday, 31 May and distributed a poster asking women from the area to join and meet them. They tried to contact the mosque management but were brushed off.

Everything went awry when the mosque management caught wind of the iftaar. They were met with extremity and harsh demands where mosque authorities called this gathering bidah or an innovation in religious matters and said the women had not obtained permission to host an event.

Both Allie and Khan who furthered their Islamic Studies at the Medinah Institute in Cape Town knew this was not the way to respond. Besides, the men break their fasts there every evening.

The iftaar, with close to 30 women in attendance, went on smoothly until a man threatened the women to leave when they proceeded into the demarcated section for women, which has a separate entrance. “Under no circumstances”, he said, “are women allowed to pray here unless they are travelling”. He said he was to lock the back room which had signs put up that we had to leave after maghrib (sunset prayers).

After performing maghrib, Khan and another woman asked the caretaker of the mosque to open a classroom for the ladies to finish eating and perform the evening prayers.

“We were sitting in utter darkness and we would not eat really, because we could not see. We said we would really like to be in a room with a [loudspeaker] so that we can read taraweeh and he said ‘absolutely not’,” Khan said to Voice of the Cape.

The women then sat in ‘a peaceful protest’ in the courtyard of the mosque. Before the evening prayers were about to commence, a group of men approached them and demanded that the women not pray in congregation and leave the area. A man pushed a woman as she protected her daughter who was attempting to record the incident, Khan said.

“He charged at her and pushed the mother and one of the women and I tried to get him off of her and tried to calm the mom down, because at this point she was shaking,” she said.

Another man eventually intervened and arranged for a room for the women to pray in where they completed the remainder of the evening prayers.

Khan said with both incidents she was so shocked at the way the men behaved at the mosque. “I’m still shocked because the men felt it was okay to lay their hands on us,” Khan said. The worst part, she said, was that no one did anything.

“Men would stand back and know this is an act that is wrong and didn’t take responsibility for it,” she said.

When the Spur video went viral, and with the #MeToo campaign, men stood up to condemn their fellow men, she said. “In our Muslim community, we realise they are not vocal about gender-based violence even in the mosque space for women who want to pray,” Khan said. She said this is deeply rooted in toxic masculinity and patriarchy.

Khan said mosque officials confirmed that the prayer room would be remain available to women after the incident on Friday, but on Sunday night the room was locked midway into evening prayers.

Khan and Allie were promised that they would be able to engage with mosque officials about the incident, but to date no communication has been received.

To pray at the mosque is sunnah, Khan said and the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) did not ban women from mosque.

“We live in a critical time where women are not empowered because we are kept behind closed doors,” Khan said. “The mosque is not just a place to pray, it’s a place to grow spiritually. It has nothing to do with men really, they’re just there. We really want to grow with each other,” she added.

At the end of the day women just want respect and love from our communities, Khan said. All Khan and Allie want is for women to be treated equally and for men to respect women equally. “Women need respect for their voices, their bodies, what they have to say and their minds,” she said.

The Daily Vox has reached out to the Jamiatul Ulama South Africa and will update the story should it be received.

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9 COMMENTS

  1. Re: mosque authorities called this gathering bidah or an innovation in religious matters…
    1. The car in which the Maulana drives to the mosque is a bid’ah.
    2. The electricity in the mosque is a bid’ah.
    3. The hot and cold water in the mosque is a bid’ah.
    4. The carpet in the mosque is a bid’ah.
    Need I say more?
    How backward can one get?

  2. MUSJID INVASION BY PROSTITUTES AND LESBIANS

    Question

    A group of women very defiantly entered the Musjid in Ormonde for iftaar and Salaat. Despite the Musjid authorities prohibiting them, they stubbornly remained and refused to leave. What is their status in terms of the Shariah?

    Answer

    These women bereft of any vestige of haya (Imaani shame and modesty) conducted themselves lewdly like prostitutes. Perhaps they are lesbians. It is never possible for a decent Muslim lady of respect and shame to ever acquit herself with such obscenity as these lesbians had flagrantly, rudely and in Shiah style displayed.

  3. Shaazia Ebrahim.. As salaamu alay kum warahmatuallahi wabarakatu..

    Hope this message finds you In good health Insha Allah..

    The video u have posted and the long message to go with it..
    Id like to inform u that i know the person in the video… And For every1 that knows him knows that he is a person who stands up for whats right and if wrong he will tell u, u are wrong.. The manner he has spoken in the video is solid proof that the ladies have done and said things to make him really angry..
    Sadly and coincidentally they have only posted or video’d the part where they felt insulted instead of what happend from the start..

    This man is the most calm person u would come across especially if his speaking to any1..

    I am not messaging you to attack u nor start an argument.. But after gathering infromation and finding out what happen i felt the need to comment as it is unfair uploading a video without knowing what has really happend as well as associating another problem that happend in the same article which this uncle wasnt part of..

    There is always two sides to a story and its actually sad what this has turned into.. The video was posted on facebook even after the lady said THE VIDEO WILL NOT GO VIRAL.. The video was then removed off facebook as it turned into an ugly matter, people of all kinds had commented and said to the ladies what they have done is wrong..and quoted hadiths and explained to them the teachings of Islam and what they have learnt and what they understand.. Sadly every1 started going crazy and people started arguing amongst each other..

    This is so unnecessary.. I had messaged shaazia as well to say i dont know what was her aim or any1 aim is to post the video on social media.. As we live in a time where every1 is quick to judge without knowing 2 sides to a story.. And causing more problems, anger, and drama amongst fellow muslims..

    Islam doesnt teach us to cause problems nor disgrace or try to name or shame a person instead Allah has said:

    ‘Whoever conceals the fault of his muslim brother.. Allah will conceal his faults on the day of resurrection’

    After gathering information i also found out that they did the same thing last year and there are pictures to show that the ladies are in the masjid reading with the men a few surfs away..

    Islam is simple we as the ummah complicate it by wanting to preach and practice it differently..

    So i dont think it’s fair that this video is going Viral without any1 even trying to find out the other side of the story.. So it would be really nice of you if u could remove this video to avoid any further drama and arguments from others.. As we are in the holy month of Ramadhaan lets spend the last few days trying to please Allah..

  4. Some of these persons are perennial trouble causers, they have been doing it for years, this I know personally. Continuously giving half the story or challenging authority unnecessarily and definitely provoking a situation by not following Masjid or institutions protocol. And most of all not listening or adhering to instructions from trustees when directed to. Making half educated interpretations of Quranic texts to fit their agenda. Maybe they are seeking attention. Allah knows best, hope they get hidayat to go about their agenda in a better manner without trying to seek attention with videos and premeditated confrontations.

  5. Im a woman. In Islam we are given more rights than any other religion. Im an x councellor, tutor, matchmaker. As an eldervi have this to say. We grew up in a protected environment. Our men allowed us, as in Islam, to be educated in both fields. But we obeyed our Lord. Our dressing, morality etc was never questionable.
    I worked from home, but came into contact with individuals from every field of life. I specialized in drugs and marital councelling. My observation in the field was that the women chose to become independent. They chose to impose on the basic duties of men, take over and become independent. It was in our era that feminism reared its ugly head. Denying the sensible and moral right of every women to make her own dignified choices. Like sheep, women reacted in droves. Ignited by the false sense of freedom it gave them.
    It was like a sudden burst of oxygen in a tank. Even that eventually diminishes.
    Years later, we faced abuse, rape, indignity, shedding of morality from men in the work places. As usual, silently some innocent women plodded on. Faced with home and work life, their burdens grew.
    Children turned to drugs, free from a mothers comfort, men turned to affairs simply because the women were too tired to respond. Life took on a new but horribly tragic turn.
    We were inundated with calls from women. Emotionally, mentally and physically tired out, they wanted out. Recently many western women got together to encourage the “stay at home” mentality. They were tired of feminism. They wanted to be women, housewives, mothers.
    When western civilization is beginning to admit the failure of feminism, here we find our Indian women taking up from the crumbs of failure.
    Now comes feminism in Islam. That a woman attended musjid in the former years,yes,its true. In the beginning, even alcohol and other vices weren’t taken up as issues. Allah Ta’ala was implementing a Deen that needed the seed to be planted, take root and then grow. Just as a plant grows in a soil that isnt conducive to its environment, but slow addition of compost makes sure that its growth flourishes after that. Eventually all these were weeded out via revelations.
    For women to attend musjid isnt compulsory. And ladies were never ever in a mixed congregation then. There was a clear cut segregation
    Many ahadith attest to the fact that even our Prophet (saw) preferred that.
    Hes wives read in their houses. I cant understand why the women dont look at the preferred way. Even Hadhrat Aisha (ra) always proclaimed the above. That if it was seen how the women behave now then Nabi (saw) would have banned them from attending.
    Now look at our current scenario. The behavior and attire of these women. When women then were fully attired to such an extent that only one eye was visible, a complete shroud covered their bodies.
    Would our women obey that form of attire and segregation??
    Unlikely in the light of their dressing and behavior in the above video. Women would never have dared to expose themselves or confront our Beloved Nabi (saw) in that manner.
    And yes. People know this man to be a very kind and giving soul. A man who privately does a lot for the community. To see him abused by these ladies, which they conveniently left out, was shocking in the least.
    So my dear. Get your facts correct and then report on an incident that caused furore against these ladies. In fact many ladies commented against these feminist perpetrators. Hence it was removed to avoid more harm coming to these very perpetrators.
    Its Ramadaan and shaitan is chained, only to reveal the real Shaitaans in our midst.
    May Allah Ta’ala grant us the true understanding of deen ameen

  6. All over the world women are allowed to attend the mosque. Women attend the holiest mosque in the world – Mecca , Madina and Aqsa !

    Yes within the confines of shariah . Segregated with separate facilities or at the back.

    Yes it’s not compulsory for women to attend but should not be prevented .

    Some women especially in older years can find deep sanctity in the mosque. In our country in Cape Area women attended for years. Now in Hougton and Fourways they attend , yes within the confines of shariah .

    Open the mosque to women adhering to all guidance of segregation and within confines of shariah .

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